Monday, September 29, 2008
You Are the Guru
You are a naturally good counselor. You are inspiring, encouraging, and compassionate.
You are eager to help everyone who crosses your path, even those who don't want to be helped.
You are a natural healer. People feel at peace when they are with you.
You are so good for people, in fact, that they go through withdrawal once you're gone.
You quietly do your own thing, without openly resisting. You secretly try to fix every problem.
Your biggest regret is not being able to help as many people as you'd like.
Saturday, September 27, 2008
> One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for
> hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the
> animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't
> worth it to retrieve the donkey.
> He invited all his neighbours to come over and help him. They all grabbed a
> shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized
> what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted
> A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was
> astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the
> donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.
> As the farmer's neighbours continued to shovel dirt on top of the
> animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon,
> everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of
> the well and happily trotted off!
> Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to
> getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of
> our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by
> not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.
> Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
> 1. Free your heart from hatred - Forgive.
> 2. Free your mind from worries - Most never happen.
> 3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.
> 4. Give more.
> 5. Expect less
> NOW --------
> Enough of that crap . . .
> The donkey later came back, and bit the shit out of the farmer who had
> tried to bury him. The gash from the bite got infected, and the farmer
> eventually died in agony from septic shock.
> MORAL FROM TODAY'S LESSON:
> When you do something wrong, and try to cover your ass, it always comes back to
> bite you.
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
You Are 48% Sociopath
You're not a sociopath, but you're very prone to antisocial behavior.
Other people's opinions matter little to you. You live your own fringe life - for better or worse.
Friday, September 19, 2008
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said,
'How do I know if I married the right person?'
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said,
'It depends. Is that your husband?'
In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's
weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love
with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and
liked their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a
completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO
anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... because it's
happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept off my feet.' Think about
the imagery of that ___expression. It implies that you were just
standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and
happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.
But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's
the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone
calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always
welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead
of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you
think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference
between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or
even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry
the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria
of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with
someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their
spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is
the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby,
a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It
lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You
could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same
situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON;
IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll
NEVER just happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to
'make' it day in and day out. That's why we have the ___expression
'the labor of love.' Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And
most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make
your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific
things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity),
there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and
exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your
relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and
effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable...
you can 'make' love.
Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'... not just a feeling.
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
You Are 85% Kinky
If you've heard of it, you've tried it. You're that kinky.
You're open to any and all sexual experiences, as long as they're safe.
You see the bedroom as the primary place for all your adventures.
But that's not to say that the bedroom is the only place you get kinky!
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Harga tiket $8 sahaja, samakan figurenya dengan harga tiket di Malaysia tapi….you do the math ha ha RM32 ok! But it was worth it. Ada dua orang je dalam panggung tuh termasuk aku, maybe because it’s weekday and cinema tu pun macam jenis yang tak popular je. The cinema itself is a good reminder of our local GSC tapi jangan bayangkan GSC yang besar-besar tu, lebih kurang GSC Summit Bukit Mertajam, GSC Kuantan, standard-standard macam tulah, tak meletop sangat just lite-lite oren keselesaan dia.
SATC was so entertaining and intriguing in its on way. I have been following the series since the first season, first episode, sampailah sirinya tamat dan sekarang movie pulak. I felt so attach to the film, rasa macam cerita diri sendiri pulak….macam mana tu?
Oklah, not gonna tell more on SATC, perhaps none of you are a big fan of this series pun so what’s the point.
After SATC, from Chinatown I walked to Oxford Street. Time is already noon, so just to kill time until the performance tonite. Takde apa pun kat sini, kedai-kedai je he he katanya….here I found this good bookshop, very good for me la and I bought this…
Show starts at 7pm so I have to be there latest by 6 pm. Took a bus to the harbour and walk to Opera house…promised lil bro that we meet at the box office. Credit handphone pulak habis…tawakkal jelah, janganlah dia buat-buat lupa ke, buat-buat lembab ke.
Once reach there, lil' bro dah tunggu, cool, he is learning to be punctual ha ha rupanya ada reason kenapa punctual. Whateva, nasib baik aku tak join the rest of the family to bondi.
So while waiting, we snappy-snappy sikit untuk menjeleskan orang kampong di Malaysia
It was quite hard to decide whether nak tengok Hamlet by Bellshakespeare or Frank Woodley, Possessed.
Piker punya piker, later decide to watch Frank Woodley, murah and duration of show is just nice. Hamlet though tempting tapi 3 jam and I don’t want to mengejutkan my lil bro yang baru nak cuba try test tengok teater ni macam mana. Teater kat Malaysia pun dia tak pernah tengok ok. Bunda pulak lagi best, dia kata “Teater Melayu pun aku tak faham, kau nak suruh aku tengok yang ni pulak.” Tak paham katanya….
One good thing is that you don’t have to wear formal ke or baju batik segala bagai macam pergi tengok show dekat IB, pakai je apa kau nak asalkan presentable, senang!
A lil bit on the performance…hmmm…category oklah, some of our local performance are much better. Standard-standard show kat Penang je sebab banyak sangat lawak slapstick but….but..the energy adalah sangat menakjubkan dan ia dimainkan oleh seorang pelakon sahaja. Seorang pelakon yang membawakan dua watak.
Nak kata dia hebat sangat wouldn’t be farelah sebab dia memang seorang pelakon komedi yang sangat berpengalaman dan performance ni memang makanan dia, so bolehlah dikatakan yang dia buat show ni just untuk mengisi masa lapang ha ha a more detail review of the performance will be posted in blog bakawalee n tetamu
That’s end the day…puas hati sangat hari ni..dapat tengok SATC, cruising di Oxford Street and watch a play at Opera House…magnificent!! Priceless!!
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
You Are 59% Non Conformist
You definitely have your freak flag out, and from time to time, you wave it.
You have some pretty strong opinions, and you're not afraid to express them.
below is the definition of conformist and non-conformist that i quote from urbandictionary.com:
Despite popular belief, we are -not- all conformists. We are however, all influenced by sources other than ourselves. An 'individual' would be a person whom does what he/she wishes to, for reasons that he/she has justified themselves, rather than doing something because someone else deems it as correct, or 'cool', a conformist does the opposite. In short, a conformist gives way too much of a shit about what others think.
Sadly, the polulation has decided to categorise themselves as one thing or another, leading to so many labels, that we just assume that everyone is being a conformist slut, the vast majority of the time.
The whole "Emo" thing is the current conformist favourite, even though the concept is that "Nobody understands me." and "I'm so different.", when everyone undergoes this transformation, being a basketcase is now 'cool'.
I say we don't give them psychological help, and instead leave them to bleed from the wrists, crying, until they die.
I scored 59% that means i am a non-conformist....tak jadi pengikut trend he he
Thursday, September 04, 2008
Hari bermula dengan bangun pagi seawal-awalnya…dah la semalam punya letih tak habis lagi, hari ni kena pulak bangun pepagi. Nevertheless, everybody manage to pull themselves out of bed and siap dalam masa yang ditetapkan.
Trip hari ni akan bawa kitaorang ke Blue Mountain. Ada banyak lagi tourist agent yang menawarkan trip ke Blue Mountain tapi yang ini best and murah jugaklah.
Our guide name is Brent. Memang tourist guide sungguh!!! Dialah guide, dialah driver, dialah tukang bancuh kopi, dialah tukang buat lawak, dialah juga peniaga direct selling yang berjaya ha ha memang puas hati bersama Brent on that day. Dah la rupa dia ada iras Mr. Big dalam SATC he he
First stop adalah Wildlife Park apa benda ntah, dah tak ingat tapi pergi semata-mata nak tengok Koala Bear. Koala Bear kat sini boleh pegang-pegang, kat tempat lain tak boleh. Tapikan, aku tak ada gambar dengan koala bear sebabkan, aku amek video, pastuh video tuh terdelete he he sangat bengong kejadian ittew. Jadi kita tengok menatang lain jelah ye..
Ada kangaroo dan wallabies
Ada penguin Happy Feet
Tak sampai Blue Mountain lagi ye, dalam perjalanan, trip stop sekejap untuk pertunjukan membaling boomerang oleh……..Brent!!!!! multi-tasking sungguh Brent neh. Pertunjukkan sahajalah, sambil dia ajar macam mana nak main menatang tuh tapi takdelah pulak dia nak suruh kitaorang try Cuma bila dah naik bas semula, si Brent ni start jual boomerang tu ha ha direct selling katanya.
Next stop is the Blue Mountain yang menjadi sebutan ittew. Sini ada The Three Sisters rock formation yang sangat popular ittew dan juga the steepest train ride in the world. Whoa memang steep uols..he he videonya juga terdelete ha ha terpaksalah korang pergi tengok sendiri or google je. Kita tengok gambar tiga adik-beradik pompuan yang gaygeh ittew
Asyira Bella, Nurina Fasya dan Zarinatul Mazlen sedang pose-pose cantik di dalam kabus selepas hujan
Asyira Bella, Nurina Fasya dan Zarinatul Mazlen yang bertukar menjadi batu kerana mereka sudah bosan menjadi manusia dan mereka mahu mencuba sesuatu yang baru.
Kitaorang ada dekat sini dalam sejam lebih je, kemudian terus ke lookout point di kawasan Blue Mountain jugak tapi jauh sikit ha ha sebenarnya aku dah lupa nama tempat ni. Here, kitaorang picnic dengan kopi and tea yang disediakan oleh Brent beserta biskut yang rasanya sungguh lemak-lemak sedap.
Itulah Brent yang pakai spek mata hitam. Yang berpeluk tu, laki bini dari San Diego, AS. Cina kat depan tuh, orang Singapore tapi duk kat AS.
Yang hujung tuh, couple dari New Zealand yang sentiasa lambat dalam segala segi, yang depan tuh, bro metal yang jiwang bila tengok wombat ha ha
Bunda nak tanam pokok neh depan rumah…aku kata…wateva!!! Tengoklah muka penuh harapan dia tuh..
Small bro suka rumah ni tapi lepas amek gambar baru perasan ini bukan rumah tapi church!!!
Sini juga ada satu kedai cokelat yang sangat meriah ok….aku capai itu ini tapi akhirnya aku tak beli apa pun ha ha there’s too many too choose from, kalau tak ada cari, dah ada…tak reti pulak nak pilih ye tak.
Next stop is the Olympic Park. Takde benda sangat kat sini, macam pergi Stadium Bukit Jalil je, tempat besar-besar tapi tak ada orang.
Ini nama-nama volunteer yang diabadikan pada tiang-tiang di perkarangan Stadium ni…mereka-mereka yang berjasa yang dijadikan bahan muzium sekali lagi ha ha
Stop terakhir setelah mengucapkan selamat tinggal pada Brent. Dia hantar kami sampai sini sahaja. Dari sini kami akan naik feri menyusuri sungai hapakebendantah menuju ke Sydney Harbour.
Tak ada apa yang menarik sepanjang perjalanan menyusuri sungai dengan feri tu, sekali-sekala kami berhenti untuk mengambil dan menurunkan penumpang. Di sesetengah tempat kelihatan rumah-rumah orang kaya yang tak tahu nak buat apa dengan duit diaorang melainkan invest untuk rumah-rumah besar tepi sungai with jetty and boats.
Dalam feri ni aku dah berkira-kira mahu ke Opera House….aku mahu dapatkan tiket untuk one of the performance the next day. Mahal pun mahal ar, bukan tiap-tiap hari kau dapat tengok show dekat Sydney Opera House ye tak, lagipun from the brochure that I saw, the performances sounds interesting…hmm…so once we dock at Sydney Harbour, weols catwalk ke Opera House for the ticket of….Frank Woodley play!!!!!
Me at the box office
Next will be the final day and performance day….yeay!!!
Wednesday, September 03, 2008
Your Independence Level: High
You are extremely self reliant and autonomous.
You are definitely into doing your own thing.
But you also wouldn't turn down help if you needed it.
You follow your own path, but you don't do so blindly.
Monday, September 01, 2008
Ini award dari bilik termenung
Brilliant Weblog is a prize given to sites and blogs that are smart and brilliant both in their content and their design. The purpose of the prize is to promote as many blogs as possible in the blogsphere.Here are the rules to follow:
With this, I would like to Nominate 7 other blogs and they are:
pegawai lokman uih uih
of kapal laut and heli pad
monyet kaler merah jambu
Rules dia camnih:-“ANDA HENDAKLAH MENYEDIAKAN SATU UCAPAN BERANGAN ”It has been done according to the following rules:
1. The winner may put the logo on her blog.
2. Put a link to the person you got the award from.
3. Nominate 5 blogs.
4. Put links to the blogs.
5. Leave a message for your nominees
thank you to hakak cendawan yang menganugerahkan I dengan award ini. Saya tidaklah sangat berbesar hati menerima award yang tak seberapa ini kerana saya pernah menerima award yang lebih mahal lagi daripada ini. Award ini akan saya dermakan kepada Tabung Darah Malaysia, pandai dialah nak buat apa. Oklah, saya busy. Maafkan saya kerana agak berlagak ucapan saya ini tetapi saya tidak mahu menipu diri sendiri.
Dengan ini saya menominasikan:
of memoirs and musings
kesemua pemenang akan dinotifykan pada 31 Ogos 2008 bersempena dengan ulangtahun blog ini.