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I got this theory a month ago when I was back in KL for a 10 days holiday. In that 10 days I managed to escape to Penang for 3 days and Ipoh for 1 night stay (read: One Night Stand ha ha). To get out from this island is a blessing for me. Yes, I agree that Redang is a heaven made on earth but remember, I'm here to work, not holiday. So the pressure is there...ouch!!
When you are out of some place that you have been too accustomed to, it's like your mind and view of things are broaden and brought to another level (or perhaps remain the same as you don't remember where the level was the last time) and you can see the world in a different ways.
So that's how I come up with this theory:
Oversized ladies (read:as long as you believe you have excess baggage to carry everyday on your body and you believe people don't like to look at it, yes, I'm talking about you) chances of having a lifetime partner is higher than their skinny, modelly, nicely figured counterpart ladies.
This is based on my observation during this 10 days (and during the time my friend dating with his girlfriend and I'm the chauffeur) around KL and Penang (Ipoh was a to short a period and I was busy observing something else ha ha).
When I look around, in mamak, cafe, bus stands, malls, etc, I see couples (straight couples!) holding hands, having a good time, romantically loving each other. What attract me the most is that, almost all ladies of my subject are oversized. Maybe one or two who you will put under slim or nicely build category. Well they're not entirely oversized but still you can see the extra baggage from a kilometer away.
You look another way, you find this slim, modelly, nicely build ladies are walking, eating, go to the movies on their own or among them but not with a male partner. How is that?
So I remembered the series Sex and the City where all four main characters have difficulties of finding a man and all four of them don't hace extra baggage to carry.
And I remembered all my lady friends who has extra baggage, they are all happy with partner and those slimmy, modelly and nicely look lady friends are still out there on the look.
Also I remember some male friends talking about prefered kind of girls/ladies. Off course they say they want a slim, modelly and nicely look counterpart but in the end, they end up with the extra baggage. Then only they claim, it's more of their choice actually. Only one friend (blogger) who stick to his slimmy, modelly, nicely look taste.
Thus, that's how I managed to come up with this theory. So girls, don't worry to grow an extra baggage now and then because, actually that's what guys are looking for (my subject is guys in Malaysia) and stop whinning about it.
Don't get to serious. This is just my observation. Feel free to make your own.